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Grey sole & CSA veggies

August 20, 2013 By Nina Max in uncategorized 1 Comment

GreySole&CSA_IMG_8869Shane got some Grey Sole yesterday, hoping it would be similar to his favorite fish, Black (or Dover) Sole. It wasn’t the same as Black Sole, but all agreed that it was a lovely fish when cooked with butter, dill, lemon, capers and green beans.

For the fish, I used this recipe (also below) from food52.com. Instead of snap peas, I used green beans from our recent  CSA box. The green beans worked well, they were heavier, heartier and less summery-feeling than snap peas would have been, but very tasty nonetheless.

Working through recent CSA boxes, has meant cucumber salad with every meal. Tonight was no exception. I usually just peel and chop the cukes and mix them up with some plain yogurt, salt, and sometimes olive oil, lemon or vinegar.

For our swiss chard, I used anchovies and garlic. If you’re an anchovy lover, this is a great thing to do with your chard leaves. You simply sauté up some anchovies and chopped garlic in olive oil and/or butter. When the garlic is soft, add chopped swiss chard leaves and cook until they’re soft and not bitter. Yum.

Rose was super excited about tonight’s meal, for some reason. Possibly because she did gymnastics for 5 hours, and only ate a scant quarter of a pb&j sandwich all day. She insisted on being photographed with her plate and then proceeded to eat every single thing on it. I guess starvation is a good way to get kids to eat.

• Butter-Seared Sole with Snap Peas, Dill & Capers •
from food52.com

4 tablespoons salted butter
4 (4-ounce) skinless Dover or Grey sole fillets
Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper
12 ounces snap peas, or green beans, trimmed
1/4 cup coarsely chopped dill
2 tablespoons capers, drained and rinsed
3 to 4 tablespoons Meyer or regular lemon juice, to taste

Heat butter in a large nonstick skillet over medium-high until foamy and beginning to brown. Season fish with salt and pepper. Gently arrange fish fillets in skillet in a single layer, making sure that the pan isn’t crowded. (If necessary, cook the fish in two batches.) Cook fish, turning once with a thin spatula, until golden brown and crisp, 6 minutes. Remove fish to a platter or plates. (Reserve skillet and butter in pan.)

Return skillet to medium-high heat. Add snap peas to skillet and cook, tossing, until crisp-tender, 2 minutes (longer if using green beans). Remove from heat and stir in dill, capers and lemon juice. Serve fillets with snap peas.

 

Williamsburg Pizza

August 19, 2013 By Nina Max in dining out

WilliamsburgPizza_IMG_1831We had our first family outing in a long time tonight. Shane needed to pick something up at his studio in Williamsburg, so we met him there for some art making, good pizza and to give him a ride home.

He got pretty limpy towards the end of our “adventure”, but I think it was good for all of us to have some non-bed-ridden normalcy again.

Shane’s favorite pizza place in Williamsburg is Williamsburg Pizza. They have some excellent pies, interesting toppings, and even a few vegan choices for my non-dairy friends.

Rose’s review of our outing went like this: “I didn’t want to come, but when I got here, I remembered that this is a very exciting area.”

Chickenfish & friends

August 18, 2013 By Nina Max in dining out 1 Comment

Chickenfish&Friends_IMG_1807Rose, my sister, and I, had a late lunch/early dinner (linner?) with good friends Fiona and James, and their kids, in the burbs yesterday. We made a day of snacking on our lunch/dinner, sort-of watching the kids (but mostly trusting them not to get in trouble) and catching up.

James had been fishing in Alaska earlier in the summer, and had some lovely filets from his trip. We had to refer to the fish as chicken so that their kids would eat it. I told Rose that it might not taste quite like the kind of chicken she’s used to, and surprisingly, she didn’t blow anyone’s cover.

The two types of “chicken” were halibut and rock fish. James cooked the halibut with tomato sauce, anchovies and capers. It’s a great way to treat a hearty white fish like halibut, which I’ll have to keep in mind.

For the rock fish, James had been working on his battering and frying technique, and had it perfected. He admitted that he’d reluctantly turned to Paula Deen for tips on getting it right. Major political and personality flaws aside, that woman really does know a lot about fried stuff, the rockfish was amazing.

Fiona made a delicious salad using cherry tomatoes and a selection of herbs from their own Westchester garden. For dessert, the girls dipped blackberries in (loads of) sugar, which kept them happy and occupied for quite some time.

Shane didn’t join us because he’s going through drug withdrawal. This sounds like a terrible thing, but compared to his back pain, it’s downright pleasant.

Win-win

August 17, 2013 By Nina Max in uncategorized 2 Comments

Win-win_IMG_8866As we ate dinner, all I could think was: this dinner is a win-win. Why? Because everyone was at the table, and everyone was more or less functional.

I pimped out yesterday’s chicken, rice and bean salad with more beans, more corn, more lime juice, more cumin and some sautéed scallions. We also had quesadillas (white and whole wheat) and silky-soft, roasted CSA bell peppers.

Everyone ate, no one puked. That’s a win-win-win-win, actually.

 

Dinner debacle with a silver lining

August 16, 2013 By Nina Max in failures, family 1 Comment

Couch_IMG_8862My original plan had been to heat up the eggplant parm that my neighbor Melissa gave to me this afternoon, and serve it with some Italian sausages. The sausages, because I was sure Rose wouldn’t like eggplant parm.

At 5:30, I decided that instead, there had to be something wonderful I could make with the rest of yesterday’s whole roasted chicken. I posted a request to facebook and got to searching the internet for recipes. There are a lot of great rotisserie chicken recipe collections out there, here, here and here (among other places).

After looking through a whole lot of recipes, I determined that I didn’t have the right the ingredients for any of them, and went out to the garden with Rose.

When we returned, Shane requested his first cup of the healing bone and herb stew (or sludge) that our acupuncturist recommend I make for him. He drank it down, came into the kitchen to tell me it was bad, but not awful. And then ran back to the bathroom to be violently sick.

I proceeded to do away with the stew/sludge, at which point Rose walked into the kitchen, and pointed out how terrible it smelled. I sent her away, finished disposing of the offending stuff, and wiped the entire kitchen down with white vinegar.

At this point it was a quarter to seven. I went back to my original plan of heating up the eggplant parm. But it was still frozen rock-solid! Rose and I ran out to the store to get beans, so that I could make Chicken, Rice & Black Bean Salad.

When we got back home to cook, Rose started to complain that she was going to vomit too. This happens a lot, Shane is her trigger. I set her up in bed next to Shane with a bowl. While she moaned and groaned, I declared “I am not coming out of this kitchen until dinner is made!”

Around 8pm, when dinner was finally ready (the salad mentioned above, plus cucumbers with yogurt), Rose was too sick to eat. She lay on the couch beside a plate of food that she thought she might be able to try, but never did. She also complained that I smelled of bone stew.

Turns out, Shane’s taste buds have been negatively impacted, we believe, by all of the drugs he’s on. Nothing tastes good to him except juice and hard candy. He sat at the table to keep me company, but didn’t eat.

The thing is, I don’t really care what a disaster dinner was, because today was the best Shane has felt in weeks. And that makes me very happy.
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A whole roasted chicken

August 15, 2013 By Nina Max in pregnancy 1 Comment

WholeRoastedChicken_IMG_8855Earlier this week I received an email from my friend Gail, the subject line read: Whole Roasted Chicken? Gail—who writes the blog Molehills Matter and is currently documenting her 90 day hiatus from facebook—was offering to bring us dinner.

There’s a few things I’ve learned over the past few weeks, while managing a less than fully functional family. The first and most important, is to accept help. I told Gail that yes, we would accept a whole roasted chicken and that Thursday would be perfect.

Tonight, Gail’s husband Russell, delivered to our door not only a gorgeous, perfectly roasted, organic, herb-encrusted chicken, but also fingerling potatoes and broccoli rabe with cranberries. Not just a whole roasted chicken, but a whole delicious meal! Thank you Russell and Gail.

It’s possible that you already know how to survive when your family is not up to par, but in case you don’t, please read on.

Having to care for an out of commission husband for an extended period of time, while not feeling 100% myself, has been a challenge. Here are some the things that I’ve learned:

1. Accept help. When someone offers to do something for me, my first response is almost always: No, that’s okay, I’ll manage. After all, their life is not any easier than mine, they might have 4 children, their own full-time job and family, friends visiting from out of town, or their hands full in some other way.

Thing is, when someone offers to help, they generally mean it. They want to help, and it makes them feel good to do it. So go ahead and say yes, and don’t feel guilty about it.

2. Throw money at the problem  (and figure out how to pay for it later). This is not the time for frugality. I’ve thrown thriftiness out the window, and things are still tough! Hire a babysitter, a cleaning service, have groceries delivered, pay for a parking spot. Your bank account will suffer, your credit card bill will be sky-high, but life will be easier. To me, that’s worth a little debt.

3. Take advice with a grain of salt and then give some back. Over the past few weeks, it seemed like everyone and their grandmother had advice on what do do about Shane. In my heightened emotional state (due to pregnancy hormones and stress) I wasn’t always the most gracious listener. I was irritable, and I wasn’t able to hide it.

Most folks didn’t seem able to grasp the severity of Shane’s back problem. They suggested I take him here, bring him there, do this, try that (yoga?? hah!). All of which involved Shane actually getting out of bed and going somewhere. But he could barely walk farther than the bathroom! My emotional temperature was rising.

It’s all well and good to suggest he see a back specialist, but it took me hours and hours on the phone just to find one lousy doctor. Everyone I called was either booked up until October (despite my telling them it was an emergency) or didn’t accept our insurance. Not to mention the monumental task of actually getting him to a doctor.

I had to give him an elephant’s dose of Valium and Codeine just to get him out of the apartment. He nearly passed out several times on the way down from our 5th floor walk-up (and what the hell would pregnant little me have done with a 6′-5″, 250lb passed out guy?). By the time we were back from the doctor, his pain was worse than ever, he was back to square 1. Getting a second opinion was out of the question.

I understood that people wanted to help, I really did, and I was (and still am) grateful that so many people care. I also understood the feeling of helplessness, I was feeling pretty helpless too, but the impractical advice was doing me in.

Finally, I figured out how to handle all of the very well intentioned but unhelpful suggestions. One approach was to just thank you, and leave it at that. For the more persistent wanter-to-helpers, I said: Shane and I need to figure out how to handle this on our own, but if you really want to help, this is what you can do…

It’s hard to tell people to do things for you, but it works. You get what you need, they get what they need, everyone’s more or less happy. Problem solved!

Now to get Shane back on his feet.

 

 

Again?

August 14, 2013 By Nina Max in uncategorized 2 Comments

Pasta_Sausage_IMG_8838Yes, pasta with tomato and sausage sauce… again. It’s an easy, and pretty hands-off dish, and Rose and Shane like it. Get the recipe, and info on how to faux-vegetarianize it, here.

Exceptional potatoes

August 13, 2013 By Nina Max in uncategorized

Exceptional_Potatoes_IMG_8830I am very excited about this new potato salad dish! It’s sort of potato salad, sort of potato side, because you roast the potatoes before assembling the dish and then serve warm or at room temperature.

With the potatoes, we had a green salad with an unthinkably terrible dressing, that I wont tell you more about. And steak. I am getting quite good at making steak, can you believe it? Tonight’s was a very loose interpretation of this recipe.

The potato recipe is from Saveur, and can be found here. It’s also below.

Of course I did a couple of things differently with the potatoes. Firstly, I used new potatoes instead of yukon gold. I didn’t use shallots, because we’ve been getting all kinds of curious and interesting onions in our CSA box lately. Because I prefer my onions soft, and perhaps slightly golden, but not brown, I didn’t quite brown the onions I used—which were like scallions with a baby onion at the bottom. For the garlic, I added a smashed bulb for flavor, and then removed it before mixing the onions into the sauce.

• Roasted Potato Salad with Sour Cream & Shallots •
from Saveur.com

2 lbs Yukon Gold potatoes, scrubbed and cut into ¾-inch chunks
3 tbsp. olive oil, divided
1½ teaspoons kosher salt, divided
freshly ground pepper
2 medium shallots, thinly sliced (about ¼ cup)
2 cloves garlic, roughly chopped
⅓ cup sour cream
1 tsp. Dijon mustard
1 tsp. red wine vinegar
2 tbsp. chopped fresh flat-leaf parsley 

Preheat the oven to 400°. Toss together potatoes, 2 tbsp. oil, 1 tsp. salt, and pepper to taste in a large bowl. Spread on a rimmed baking sheet in a single layer and roast, stirring once halfway through, until browned and cooked through, 25-30 minutes. Remove from oven and let cool slightly.  

While potatoes are roasting, heat remaining 1 tablespoon of oil in a pan set over medium heat. Add shallots, season with remaining ½ teaspoon salt and let cook, stirring occasionally, until softened and brown, 5-7 minutes. Add garlic and stir until just softened, 1-2 minutes. Remove from heat.  

In a large bowl stir together the sour cream, mustard, and vinegar. Add the cooked potatoes, shallots, and garlic and gently toss to coat.  Add additional salt and pepper to taste and stir in parsley just before serving. Serve warm or room temperature.  

 

 

Karmic debt

August 12, 2013 By Nina Max in quick 2 Comments

SummerPasta_Chicken_IMG_8827Tonight was not a good night. The straw that broke the camel’s back was when I received a bill for over $6,000, because the hospital accidentally sent my amnio to an out of network lab. I know it’s just money and who cares, really. But I was already at my limit.

Shane is still in bed, after nearly two weeks, several doctors, and a dope-peddler’s-fantasy worth of prescription narcotics.

What to make for dinner when you seem to be paying back a lifetime’s-worth of karmic debt, all at once? Corn, baby. Corn makes me happy. Pump up the joy with perfectly in-season heirloom cherry tomatoes, butter, pasta, cheese and scallions. Well, it’s almost enough to make a girl feel better.

A bottle of wine would have been nice, but of course I’m not allowed to drink (much) wine, that would make life too easy.

I can’t get enough cucumber salad these days, so we had that too. Chicken for Rose and Shane was seasoned with Penzey’s Mural of Flavor and salt (of course), and sautéed in butter and olive oil.

Raise a virtual glass, y’all, to better days.

Just Thai

August 11, 2013 By Nina Max in failures

Injury man wanted takeout, so we had takeout. I think it’s hard for him to see me doing everything, and not be able to help. We had Thai, it wasn’t very good. That seems to be the gist of things lately, not very good. We’re still better off than many—probably most—people in the world. That’s a plus, and a thing to remember.

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